What do you bring to a relationship because of ....

[Butterflies]

I was going through an exercise today that asked the question what do we bring to a relationship because of Social Phobia. It got me thinking...

Because we don' t talk alot... we can be great listeners...
Because we know what it's like to suffer humiliation ... we can be understanding...
Because we don't give our heart too easily... we can become a loyal and rare friend.

Anyone think of anymore?

 

[alex29]

Because we don't give our heart too easily... we can become a loyal and rare friend.

Just to add onto this one:

I don't trust people easily, so when they see that I do trust them, they feel they can trust us in return. They know they can safely confide their worries in me because I place so much importance on keeping my concerns secret.

 

[recluse]

I am a good confidant, anything a person tells me in confidence remains that way. I'm compassionate too.

 

[bleach]

I dont bring anything to a relationship because of SA. Maybe for other reasons, but SA only takes things off the table.

 

[Doomed2Die]

Beautifully enough constant suffering brings out the most desired qualities that in a true relationship people are looking for.

You can almost taste the irony. Bittersweet.