I met a gorgeous girl last year. We got on really well and at the end of the night we had a kiss and a cuddle, i was dumbstruck. It felt like getting whacked over the head with a brick. She was about 5 foot 2, a bit smaller than me with blonde hair, she looked like, i think shes called kelly clarkeson, very cute. That night i was with my friends and one of my female friends was really unhappy that i was getting on with a girl and she went mental, as i was kissing her i saw a few people drag her off because she was really angry. Me and the cute girl swapped numbers and we all went our own ways. The next day my female friend and her cousin told me she was a lesbian and she wasnt interested. I tried to text her but got no reply. Seems weird we got on so well, then nothing. Im wondering if they said something to her to scare her off. I know she wasnt a lesbian, lesbians dont kiss guys. The same thing pretty much happens whenever i meet a nice girl. I think my friends are comfortable with me being the weird loner and they'd like to keep it that way. Sucks. But in response to the question, if i meet a nice girl and i know i wont bump into her everyday, if i think she likes me too, i just ask her out casually. I dont say, wanna go on a date, ill say something like, i was gonna go n see that new film, i havent got no one to go with though, are you upto anything this weekend? its not to full on and the worst they'll say is, eww get away from me yer freak! nah jus kiddin, they'll say theyre busy if they dont wanna go.