Anonymous
Well-known member
Hello,
For the people who are overcoming SA/shyness and having some success, where do you meet people? It's hard not to break shyness when you stay in your room all day. Im unemployed and in a new city ( Not that i ever had friends/relatonships before), so what is the best way to dig myself out?
For those of you in school, realize you won't have it again where you are surrounded by such a diverse population of people your age. Just look for someone who looks friendly, ask them if they want to study for the next test. it's much easier to approach someone knowing that if you are rejected, it is b/c they are not interested in studying, not b/c they think you are an awkward loser.
For the people who are overcoming SA/shyness and having some success, where do you meet people? It's hard not to break shyness when you stay in your room all day. Im unemployed and in a new city ( Not that i ever had friends/relatonships before), so what is the best way to dig myself out?
For those of you in school, realize you won't have it again where you are surrounded by such a diverse population of people your age. Just look for someone who looks friendly, ask them if they want to study for the next test. it's much easier to approach someone knowing that if you are rejected, it is b/c they are not interested in studying, not b/c they think you are an awkward loser.