polishgirl
Well-known member
I know this might sound silly and so teenagy. Im 16 years old and I feel like I repel guys. I know that I am not physically unattractive, because I have been told that multiple times. However, there must be something in my presence or my behavior that completely pushes guys away. Is it my complete lack of confidence? Maybe Im too self-contious and that repels guys?
The typical example would be me and my friends dancing at a concert. All of them have guys around them, except me. I feel ignored, almost left out and it gives me that terrible feeling that something is wrong with me. I am pretty sure I am no less physically attractive. Im confident about my looks, but not about my personality... I feel like I need to prove myself to guys, like I
m not good enough for their attention and then get really stressed out. Does any one have that, too? I run away from any possible contact, too, although not consciously. There is something I must do that guys find unattractive. It drives me crazy.
The typical example would be me and my friends dancing at a concert. All of them have guys around them, except me. I feel ignored, almost left out and it gives me that terrible feeling that something is wrong with me. I am pretty sure I am no less physically attractive. Im confident about my looks, but not about my personality... I feel like I need to prove myself to guys, like I
m not good enough for their attention and then get really stressed out. Does any one have that, too? I run away from any possible contact, too, although not consciously. There is something I must do that guys find unattractive. It drives me crazy.