actually it's a very complicated subject. The brainwashing of the media, the conspiracy on this earth, exopolitics, etc. etc. etc.
Also, people think that gender roles are universal, or that we are inherently promiscuous. If that is so why do we have to form pair bonds for survival, and the raising of our children? Why do we have to learn how to have nonejactulatory orgasm? Some species form pair bonds, some don't. In some species the male takes care of the children, has "womanly" traits. The females having 'manly' traits. Some are monomagous, mate for life. Some are promiscuous, because to slowly make their species sort of immune to inbreeding with time, and controlled exposure. Some have more vasopressin in their systems and some don't.
We are also one of the only species to have sex for pleasure.
Back long ago, humans survived by being evil to each other. You see this in the animal kingdom. primitively , or evolutionary wise we had to outcompete each other to get the women. There was intrasexual selection and intersexual selection. Humans were more intrasexual ie, the men competed amongst each other for Sexier traits to get women, rather than traits that would ensure survival of the whole species and thus themselves. And that is also largely governed by the mind and evolutioanry development of the psychology of the species.
So women had to choose the most violent aggressive domineering man, or at least, those were the only choices available anyways, because we humans hadn't learned that we were better off if we came together and lived in peace.
We are still learning to live in peace, and also spiritually/psychologically and technologically developing, though there are still some of the old mindsets being used by many many people, and such that the society is built on it.
Ie, the monetary system is based on lack. When economic times become hard, women become prostitutes, and men revert back to the same pattern of dealing stress to overcome stress, which repeats violence and the continues a downward spiral. The pwoers that be know this. That's why they have enslaved us with a monetary system (based on the idea of "lack of resources" which there really is none, money is based on a number on a screen or some magical "worth" of "precious stones" or made up quanity of natural resources that the bankers make up when really there is more of that resource than they make it out to be) and made the world such that our accomplishments don't mean a thing but rather how evil we can be to attain money,because really most of the time, your accomplishments don't mean jack **** because there are evil people that rule the world and don't let people's accomplishments take them anywhere or to get money.
So yeah, it's a messed up society. Hopefully we are outgrowing this but there are still people who stil believe in evil thnigs, even unconsciously too. There are things at play also behind the scene which people do not realize that these same people support which only contribute to continuing the struggle.
We have to learn to control this power of sexuality. For centuries and more The Evil Powers That Be have been using sexuality to keep humanity in darkness by creating taboos and basically manipulating things to keep us enslaved by sexuality, and the lack thereof. We have to learn to become more spiritual and that also means to contorl our sexualiy, learn to sublimate it. It's the only way, for traditional sexual practices CAUSE STRESS on the stress maintenance system of the bodies. IT depletes us of the hormones that make us feel good. The lack of sex makes us deficient in oxytocin and the reward system becomes ****ed.
Seriously it's pretty damn fed up but this is where we are. And people need to come together and realize this and work towards the better, and stop stopping down to uncivilized, unuseful practices which only serve to harm us in the long run. For evolution, for sanity. For the survival of our species, AND YOU.
Most of the wars that we have on earth have it's origins in SEX and sexuality. In Procreation. The Evil Powers That Be know this. And people (women) also breed this. So not just men, but also women have to stop this madness.
This also makes it so that people (men mainly) who have never had experience with women in their past, once they get older, they can't get anyone because they were supposed to have had much experience with women in their past, to get women in the future. Again also based on lack.
The fact that women keep choosing older men is instilled in their minds, it keeps the younger men from maturing such that the older they get, the more they want to get younger women because they never had it when they were younger. And women wonder why men go after the younger girls.
I mean... really.......