Is there a possibility that a guy is so insecure that he would love a girl from afar rather than risk being with her? Why? We've known each other for 2 years, I've asked him out and he never answered but then two years on he still thinks I don't know he added me on facebook under a fake profile just to spy on me. I know this for a fact (I saw him logged into the fake account on his phone) before anyone asks. I tried to add him as a friend on there 2 years ago and he just left it pending... Also, he has sent me a few emails in the past saying some songs that relate to us - love songs, saying he loves me etc.
He's had a bad past, abusive. He seems to have no problems dating a couple of girls who seemed very immature and who he does not seem to like at all. He always looks miserable around them. The second one he got with just after I got a boyfriend after I tried again to get close and he just didn't respond.
He has said it's like I can see into him and read him like a book and it scares him to be that vulnerable. But that's why he loves me, because I understand him. But then he gets with girls who are the complete opposite of me...
Is it possible that a man can be so insecure that even though he loves a girl, he will be too scared to go for it? But will then just get with girls he has next to no feelings for?
He's had a bad past, abusive. He seems to have no problems dating a couple of girls who seemed very immature and who he does not seem to like at all. He always looks miserable around them. The second one he got with just after I got a boyfriend after I tried again to get close and he just didn't respond.
He has said it's like I can see into him and read him like a book and it scares him to be that vulnerable. But that's why he loves me, because I understand him. But then he gets with girls who are the complete opposite of me...
Is it possible that a man can be so insecure that even though he loves a girl, he will be too scared to go for it? But will then just get with girls he has next to no feelings for?