Hauntedhead
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Anyone work ? Ive been at this place now for 2 weeks and I find I go threw the day hideing my anxiety but i know it shows all over my face that im a nervous wreck,some days are good better then others and I never have all out anxiety to its highest peak all day just certain parts of the day depending on the situation really,but I think people judge me for the way i look ,,because alot of the time i look angry or "worried" and its so hard because im really a nice guy and im fairly outgoing and i know i look angry and worried i know i look like somthings wrong but i cant do anything about it,,its just who i am,becuase there is somthign wrong with me and i know it shows but how do you tell someone at your work like your boss or other employees that you suffer from anxiety and depression you know? Its kinda embrassing and id rather just keep it to myself .Anyways I would say most people at my job like me but it seems my boss the guy who hired me doesnt like me because I always look angry and worried or that I just hate my job which i dont ,,I hate the anxiety but i dont mind the job i actually kinda like it,I think most people there know that im an anxious guy just because im always chewing gum and have an intense look on my face,,anyways today there was this big boardroom meeting with all the bosses and all the people from the company and we had to all answer questions about the company and how we should solve them and so on,,anways finally my turn to speak and i felt really anxious as expected but i didnt do to bad i guess, but my boss was sitting on a table behind me and i could just feel his eyes burning into my face,I dont know what it is but everytime i see him and the way he looks at me like im a freak i want to punch him in the face really bad ,,I didnt blush for the first time in a long time in that kind of situation i hate those meetings,,I fear that shit like crazy while to the average person its just a way to slack off and do no work and laugh. I want to tell everyone "wtf are you looking at I have social anxiety,now stop fucking stareing at me like im a fucking circus freak"you know? but I dont say that for obvious reasons,plus im new plus its personal shit and it will just make me feel akward around them since they know so its kinda lose lose situation,,but i know in there minds they might be wondering whats wrong with me why do I look worried or anxious and it bothers me but im afraid to tell my boss that because he might fire me or think its not good for the company,,but another part of me says fuck em ,,like i never once did or said anything bad to this guy or anyone at this job for that matter, im always on time for work and im a hard worker i give 110%and do what im told with no lip. Just today i had to leave early to go fill up on medications so i left about half hour early to go see my doctor and as i was walking out i walked by the 2 big bosses and i felt like shit and i just said "im just off to my appointment"which i informed him a couple days before and the dick looked at his watch and kinda gave me the dick look the one where i want to punch his fucking teeth out look, anyways I dunno im just frustrated again over and over same thing with people..But as for my boss maybe hes just a dick to begin with ..I guess i just feel bad because i cant help the fact i feel and look anxious and worried or angry and i want to look happy and look like a plesant guy and a happy guy even if im not inside so i dont look so misrable all the time but you just cant hide being misrable if you really are, I know that from years and years of having this this nightmare. Thats what im frustrated about and i cant, and if you can relate you know its hard..Basically what im trying to say is do you guys think that he wouldnt like me because i look mean or worried or that somthings wrong with me? and and another part of me says fuck him why should i care about what he thinks or anyone else for that matter,,but doing that hurts inside to think that they might not like me or think im a freak , I pretend like it doesnt but it really does deep down. Sorry for rambeling on about this..But if you can relate or have any suggestions id be greatful to hear them. I know I know im a fucked up dude
Sorry for the long post and bad grammer and spelling and so on..
Sorry for the long post and bad grammer and spelling and so on..