Inspirer, some people actually really don't check messages until late in the night or so... (me included sometimes) Or leave phone at home.. It doesn't mean anything, just messages not checked...
For me walking (or events out in the open) is often easier than more 'formal' things too..
It would be good to ask her a few days in advance, not just a few hours in advance... Maybe have a backup plan if it rains though? (You might both go to a gym/event or something?)
I'm not sure if I'm supposed to say this lol, probably not, the book says the girl shouldn't tell, but since this is spw - hmm.. here it goes: Some 'manuals' even say a guy has to ask by Wednesday for a date on Saturday, or she must politely (and in a friendly way!
) say she can't make it until he gets it right.
Even if she *is* very interested... I can see how this could confuse some shyer guys though... Though if you really like her you would like to have her 'pinned down' for a day well in advance (not too far ahead then though either) - maybe she's just a person who likes to plan things and keep control of her schedule.. 'Spontaneous' things can sometimes be nice, sometimes they can kinda wreak a schedule though.. So in a way it shows respect of her time to ask her well in advance...
I think it's good she's independent and not waiting around for some guy to call her, no?
If the weather is 'moody' then asking for a walk (especially via text only) can be seen as 'maybe he's not really wishing so much for my company' or 'maybe he'd just like a walking buddy..' or 'why didn't he call or make more specific plans?' or maybe she likes texting better too and doesn't know your intentions lol..
Some guys take girls for granted if they 'drop everything and run' to them when they beckon...
I think it's good if you do get together and get to know her in person and then you'll know better where you're standing and if you're compatible or not...!! Also, take time to get to know her - you know that already!!
And for her to get to know you too...
I've shied away from some people when they showed interest too, sometimes it was just because of being shy, or I somehow managed to convince myself they wouldn't really be right for me (that we wouldn't be compatible), though sometimes they still had a chance...
So even if she did shy away (for whatever reason) you might still have a chance - but you never know until you get together and speak in person... (And even then there might be some time when neither of you will know where you're standing and that's perfectly normal too!!)
Attraction > not sure/exploration > finding out if compatible or not > maybe more (something like that, if I remember it right
)