Are you a virgin? Is it because of your hh?

Could be. I do sweat a lot and it makes me uncomfortable in social situations
so it could be a great part of my reason for being like this.
 

Mr_Drips

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I'd say it definately plays a part in it. If I didn't have HH, i wouldn't have social anxiety, and if I didn't have social anxiety, I'd definately have a girlfriend.
 
I’m 21 and I've never had a girlfriend or had sex. I can't really say why because I've tried. I'm really starting to feel envious of guys with girlfriends. It seems like there is some kind of "secret code" for getting a girlfriend that I am unaware of. I guess I’m not outgoing enough.
 

f-s

Member
I’m 21 and I've never had a girlfriend or had sex. I can't really say why because I've tried. I'm really starting to feel envious of guys with girlfriends. It seems like there is some kind of "secret code" for getting a girlfriend that I am unaware of. I guess I’m not outgoing enough.

My friend, many thought he should be looking for love, but mostly true love is the one who comes to you
Do not know where and when, but inevitably will come to you as long as you wish of true love
Good luck
 

Mr_Drips

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F-S, do you really think so? What happens if you spend your life waiting and waiting, thinking someone perfect is going to come, and then you reach 40, and you realize no one's coming? I don't want to end up like that, but sadly, I probably will. I am just too odd for most chicks. It's not that I am unattractive, I consider myself pretty alright...but yeah, I am not outgoing enough (even though I'm sure my friends would say otherwise). You won't catch me approaching girls in a club or any of that rubbish. I'd rather just skate all day.

I realize that I am quite young, and I have a long time ahead of me to find someone, but still. Sometimes, it just seems like I'll never get the hang of it. That I'll end up 25, a virgin, and inexperienced in womens eyes, so no girl will even come close to me, because I am damaged goods.
 
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f-s

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F-S, do you really think so? What happens if you spend your life waiting and waiting, thinking someone perfect is going to come, and then you reach 40, and you realize no one's coming? I don't want to end up like that, but sadly, I probably will. I am just too odd for most chicks. It's not that I am unattractive, I consider myself pretty alright...but yeah, I am not outgoing enough (even though I'm sure my friends would say otherwise). You won't catch me approaching girls in a club or any of that rubbish. I'd rather just skate all day.

I realize that I am quite young, and I have a long time ahead of me to find someone, but still. Sometimes, it just seems like I'll never get the hang of it. That I'll end up 25, a virgin, and inexperienced in womens eyes, so no girl will even come close to me, because I am damaged goods.

I've also search and search all the relationship did not last and I feel it inappropriate to a person tired and stopped looking for relationships until I met a girl who I wish it and I feel we would be happy with each other
I hope that they may have understood what I mean
 

Uber Schnitzel

Well-known member
Not to disagree with what f-s says but I kinda have to since I think the opposite! ::p: You can't sit and wait for some girl to come along forever (I'm assuming you are a guy Mr Drips) for one, unfortunately there's the double standard of us guys having to chase after the girl and I have to say I've found this to be true (though there are exceptions as there always are). Secondly girls like confident guys, you ask a girl out even if she doesn't feel the same she'll probably admire you for having the guts to do it and on the plus side you'll get used to asking them out. As far as the hh thing is concerned it's never stopped me from having relationships, it has stopped me having one night stands though cos let's face it they just wouldn't understand (but maybe thats no bad thing) . But trust me if a gal is into you it really isn't an issue.
 

f-s

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I'm not saying wait means to sit without doing anything ... I mean, not to hurry in the search as long as you are looking for love will come to you, but not in a hurry
This sum, what I mean
 
Women are so hard to read. I don't think there is any way to know if a girl likes you unless she says it flat-out (which never happens). When you read dating tips online, you find stuff like "her body language will mimic yours" or "she will laugh at all your jokes." It's all crap. I'm just frustrated that women aren't more straightforward.
 
I'm not saying wait means to sit without doing anything ... I mean, not to hurry in the search as long as you are looking for love will come to you, but not in a hurry
This sum, what I mean
Do you speak from experience or hope?
 

Johno

Well-known member
Being a virgin is something very special... I refer you to the virgin mary.... Upon on which our lord was born.... Let's all wait for the right girl or boy for sexual relations....
 

Johno

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Women are so hard to read. I don't think there is any way to know if a girl likes you unless she says it flat-out (which never happens). When you read dating tips online, you find stuff like "her body language will mimic yours" or "she will laugh at all your jokes." It's all crap. I'm just frustrated that women aren't more straightforward.



Women are hard to read......You are spot on in my opinion.... They are almost never direct.. They (women) expect us men to know and read accurately their subtle signs of interest. It could be as simple as brushing you as they walk past.... Or walking past you several times... Oh don't you love womennn..
 

f-s

Member
Do you speak from experience or hope?

Experience
Always I was looking for love until Tired of failure
And one of them advised me not to rush to Love is to share and inevitably will come to you
I am now connected and I love a girl, a girl like me more than I dreamed it
 

Uber Schnitzel

Well-known member
Women are so hard to read. I don't think there is any way to know if a girl likes you unless she says it flat-out (which never happens). When you read dating tips online, you find stuff like "her body language will mimic yours" or "she will laugh at all your jokes." It's all crap. I'm just frustrated that women aren't more straightforward.



Women are hard to read......You are spot on in my opinion.... They are almost never direct.. They (women) expect us men to know and read accurately their subtle signs of interest. It could be as simple as brushing you as they walk past.... Or walking past you several times... Oh don't you love womennn..

Yeah you can't hold it against them really, it's just the way they are programmed, just like I'm sure we do things that drive them nuts (and boy do they tell us about it ::p:). I wouldn't have it any other way.
In regards to reading womens signs I pay no attention to them. If I only ever asked out girls when I was certain they liked me I'd a) just be picking them cos it would be easier (i.e less fear of being rejected) and b) would have a much limited choice of who I would get the chance to date. The way I go about it is: if I like a girl I'll talk to her and eventually ask her out, if she doesn't feel the same then that's ok and we remain friends and move on but at least I know that I'm going after the one I'm actually attracted to; otherwise what's the point? I didn't always think like this though, took me a few years to figure this out.
 
Experience
Always I was looking for love until Tired of failure
And one of them advised me not to rush to Love is to share and inevitably will come to you
I am now connected and I love a girl, a girl like me more than I dreamed it
Then I have a few questions for you. Just out of curiosity.

How old are you?
How long have you been dating this girl?
 

Broch

Active member
I'm not a virgin, but I will say that having HH has caused me to avoid a lot of social situations in the past. I'm 25 and can count the number of girlfriends I've had on one hand. Currently I'm single, but that's mostly due to lack of trying. I don't do much socially outside my close group of friends, and am currently busy working full time and with school.

To be honest, if a person is worth anything, then they won't judge you by your sweat. If they do, they aren't worth your time.
 
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