I’m 21 and I've never had a girlfriend or had sex. I can't really say why because I've tried. I'm really starting to feel envious of guys with girlfriends. It seems like there is some kind of "secret code" for getting a girlfriend that I am unaware of. I guess I’m not outgoing enough.
F-S, do you really think so? What happens if you spend your life waiting and waiting, thinking someone perfect is going to come, and then you reach 40, and you realize no one's coming? I don't want to end up like that, but sadly, I probably will. I am just too odd for most chicks. It's not that I am unattractive, I consider myself pretty alright...but yeah, I am not outgoing enough (even though I'm sure my friends would say otherwise). You won't catch me approaching girls in a club or any of that rubbish. I'd rather just skate all day.
I realize that I am quite young, and I have a long time ahead of me to find someone, but still. Sometimes, it just seems like I'll never get the hang of it. That I'll end up 25, a virgin, and inexperienced in womens eyes, so no girl will even come close to me, because I am damaged goods.
Do you speak from experience or hope?I'm not saying wait means to sit without doing anything ... I mean, not to hurry in the search as long as you are looking for love will come to you, but not in a hurry
This sum, what I mean
Do you speak from experience or hope?
Women are so hard to read. I don't think there is any way to know if a girl likes you unless she says it flat-out (which never happens). When you read dating tips online, you find stuff like "her body language will mimic yours" or "she will laugh at all your jokes." It's all crap. I'm just frustrated that women aren't more straightforward.
Women are hard to read......You are spot on in my opinion.... They are almost never direct.. They (women) expect us men to know and read accurately their subtle signs of interest. It could be as simple as brushing you as they walk past.... Or walking past you several times... Oh don't you love womennn..
Then I have a few questions for you. Just out of curiosity.Experience
Always I was looking for love until Tired of failure
And one of them advised me not to rush to Love is to share and inevitably will come to you
I am now connected and I love a girl, a girl like me more than I dreamed it