What do you think of Nervous/awkward girls?

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[Ashiene]

Well I still talked to her, because I liked her sense of humor, but I tried to avoid flirting with her - it's a kind of blurry line of course. But I got the feeling she would have been into a fling, which kind of depressed me. I mean, cheating kind of freaks me out, in general. And anyway, I was looking for an emotional connection as much as anything else. But maybe that's the SA talking? I mean, SA can make you feel pretty ****ing lonely.

What about you, did you keep talking to them after you found out they had boyfriends?

nope. i avoided them completely because what's the point? when a girl has a boyfriend, all she thinks about is him. she probably treats you as a temporary substitute while her boyfriend is away. thats how girls treat me though.

 

[Plissken]

It must be nice to be a girl where things that would be considering giant, glaring flaws in a guy are just cute little quirks that make them more endearing.

 

[I_Walk_Alone]

It must be nice to be a girl where things that would be considering giant, glaring flaws in a guy are just cute little quirks that make them more endearing.

Yeah, but on the flipside, imagine how it would be as a cute, scared innocent little girl who is always getting hit on by a bunch of forward wanky males.

Thought about this the other day whilst I had a stroll to the local dole office; crossing the station there were a whole gaggle of schoolegirls, giggling and gossiping as schoolgirls do, I walked past them, and all of a sudden they hushed...

What was racing through my mind at that instance you reckon?

a) There's something wrong with my appearence

b) They somehow know that I'm a "loser"

c) They think....I'm attractive?


Turned out to be c thank god, but thats when it hit me that even if a cute girl did come onto me strongly, I'd be absolutely terrified. ::

Maybe thats how its like for shy girls all the time?

Girls?

 

[recluse]

I've seen your videos skatergirl and you don't appear nervous o'r awkward I could never bring myself to talk on video because i'm too nervous and i hate hearing my own voice.

Anyway i prefer shy girls because i would not feel as intimidated and i feel that i would not have to prove anything.

We have a culture of what we call 'ladettes' in the UK, and basically they are the complete opposite of shy girls. 'Ladettes' act like/worse than guys; Getting drunk, getting into fights, swear a lot, sleep around and get all kinds of diseases, act obnoxius.....Yeah i hate them with a passion!

 

[Tiercel]

I tend to prefer them over the alternative. I even went out of my way to befriend one in college. But she ended up absolutely hating me for some reason. But at least I tried.

I sometimes say that I like it when they twitch. Although usually only when I'm in a car with someone and see some pedestrians of the female homo sapiens.

So maybe if you're really nervous/awkward and tend to have shaky hands? A match made in Heaven.

 

[SammyT]

I prefer girls more shy than loud. If you imagine a spectrum:
1 social anxiety 2 shy 3 inbetween 4 bubbly 5 loudmouth

Then shy would be ideal

 

[Kien]

nervouse girls are cute :3

 

[I_Walk_Alone]

Shy girls are to shy for me.

At least loud girls are confident enough to approach shy guys. Even if it is through friends (the only way I got asked out).

Although I do admit, it would be like all my christmas' come at once if a cute shy girl ever asked me out. And I didn't pass out, ofcourse.

 

[Justas]

Once I met a social phobic girl, well we didn't hade what to talk about. There was a lot of silence between us. After that I have never seen her again. I think we both were scared to meet again
I have met in real life another girl, who was depressed. I feeled much better talking. She was talking more than me. Both girls knew about my problems and I knew about they're problems.
I like cute girls, but when too totaly negatives meet up it's very hard to find what to talk...

 

[pandamonium77]

Shy girls + shy guys = perfect match!

 

[rado31]

Shy girls + shy guys = perfect match!

Itd be good if sha girls only would realize :S

for girls is somehow normal to be shy

 

[lonelypothead]

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[NothingElseMatters]

Is it ... acceptable ? xD

cute,sensitive and more loveable

 

[Riptor]

I've never actually met one so I don't know...

 

[BlackKids]

Bring them on. Can't say I've met a shy girl in so long. Must all be hiding.

 

[fedupoffear88]

Hello every1,
This is mah first post, i'm excited to be here. Anyways, i like shy girls too. They tend to be more understanding and caring once they are close to you

 

[mikestar]

I would love to meet one

I could finally understand a girl!

 

[market.garden]

Definately get on better with shy girls. I get uncomfortable around really loud people.

 

[Jannah]

Their fine, I like them. It's better than being a nervous/awkward guy (me). I noticed all the girls who are shy or have SA generally still have boyfriends, where a guy with SA can't get a girlfriend to save his life.