I just came back from a phone interview. I was rejected, but it's alright. I don't feel angry or sad, maybe a little disappointed that I didn't study well for it. It's OK. I remember a while back, I avoided applying to Harvard, Stanford, Duke, and other Ivy League colleges because I was scared of getting rejected. Scared of failure. I didn't want to set myself up for failure; I had a winning streak in high school. I was in the top 10, I was in clubs and active in volunteering, donated probably near 100 hours, I was in honors classes and on the honors list, I also earned awards in various subjects, etc. People ask me if I'm applying to Harvard or something, but I said no. I was so scared of getting rejected that I aimed for an easier school. Afterwards, my life changed. In college, I was rejected many times, by many people. It was hard for me to deal with. I have protected myself from social rejection and refused to fall. By now, I've fallen many times. Then, I read an article from this guy about how he wished he had been taught to fail earlier in life, so that he could build up his grit. I could so relate. Now, after all these years, I've finally gotten myself back up, only to fall down again. It's ok, gotta get myself back up!