Jesushasomeoneforme
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for me,online dating is so hard. women love to play head games. You don't know if there being honest or not. people need to get to know someone before making decisions. anyone else have these problems?
for me,online dating is so hard. women love to play head games. You don't know if there being honest or not. people need to get to know someone before making decisions. anyone else have these problems?
Yes, some women love to play head games, but you know what? Some men love to play head games, too. It's often hard to tell whether anyone is being honest or not online. That is an unfortunate reality of life in the internet age. Let's not turn it into another gender war, please.
Yes, some women love to play head games, but you know what? Some men love to play head games, too. It's often hard to tell whether anyone is being honest or not online. That is an unfortunate reality of life in the internet age. Let's not turn it into another gender war, please.
That can happen in person as well.
for me,online dating is so hard. women love to play head games. You don't know if there being honest or not. people need to get to know someone before making decisions. anyone else have these problems?
my experience on 4 different sites were all pretty much the same.
I sign up and add a profile photo-- before I finish filling out my profile, I get about 10-12 messages from people about 20+ years out of my preferred age range who both compliment my photo and then ask me if I'm 'horney'.
So, I finish the profile and block initial weirdos but the next 5 minutes are spent anxiously staring at the computer screen as MORE AND MORE people send me gross messages and ask if I want to see their weiners.
Yes.
This happened on 4 different dating sites where I specifically said that I was looking for serious relationships/marriage with a MODEST and not sexual/scantily clad profile photo.
All in all, I think that my 15 minutes on PoF had about 63 messages; very few of which I got to read because they were all just freaking me out and making me feel sick...
marriagemindedpeoplemeet.com - same thing. Alot of guys 60+, calling me 'baby' in their messages to me with poor grammar and no punctuation.
gk2gk.com - also same thing but I had messages from 12 people in the 5 minutes before I took my profile down.
AND-- of course... match.com; alot of links to pictures of penises. Alot of old guys.
That was my experience with dating sites.
So, I have decided-- I've been 6 years on my own after a 7 year relationship. I'm 26. I'm going to die alone by choice.
The internet is a scary place.
Wow. What if a person had a vague profile without a picture? Looks like that'd stop a bunch of that. I could be wrong though.
... that's what I would suggest if you're a ladyperson and want to try out dating sites.
I'm not going to try again though. Used up all of my courage in that hour of HELL. (signing up for dating sites/onslaught of old peepees)
^Yep. The internet IS a scary place.my experience on 4 different sites were all pretty much the same.
I sign up and add a profile photo-- before I finish filling out my profile, I get about 10-12 messages from people about 20+ years out of my preferred age range who both compliment my photo and then ask me if I'm 'horney'.
So, I finish the profile and block initial weirdos but the next 5 minutes are spent anxiously staring at the computer screen as MORE AND MORE people send me gross messages and ask if I want to see their weiners.
Yes.
This happened on 4 different dating sites where I specifically said that I was looking for serious relationships/marriage with a MODEST and not sexual/scantily clad profile photo.
All in all, I think that my 15 minutes on PoF had about 63 messages; very few of which I got to read because they were all just freaking me out and making me feel sick...
marriagemindedpeoplemeet.com - same thing. Alot of guys 60+, calling me 'baby' in their messages to me with poor grammar and no punctuation.
gk2gk.com - also same thing but I had messages from 12 people in the 5 minutes before I took my profile down.
AND-- of course... match.com; alot of links to pictures of penises. Alot of old guys.
That was my experience with dating sites.
So, I have decided-- I've been 6 years on my own after a 7 year relationship. I'm 26. I'm going to die alone by choice.
The internet is a scary place.
feel like you are nothing but a piece of meat that most men want to pound with their tenderizer:thumbup:
You left the wrong smiley at the end of my quote, jc! holy cow, now it looks like I am happy about it! h: :bigsmile:Cool...meat tenderizer!
You left the wrong smiley at the end of my quote, jc! holy cow, now it looks like I am happy about it! h: :bigsmile:
one of the dating sites I signed up to charged a membership fee to be able to read incoming mail
a few other ones I just registered to look at other peoples pictures because I was bored