Honestly, Do you literally have No friends?
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FountainandFairfax
in a VAN down by the RIVER
I only have one friend out in the world, and a few online. For me at least, it just seems like the more people I know, the more problems I have. I’m too sensitive and jacked-in to other people’s emotions and feelings; I get overwhelmed too easily to be around people for any substantial period of time. I don’t consider myself a misanthrope, it’s really the opposite - I like people, they’re just too much for me.
Well I only have one guy who I consider as a friend,I work with him,there is no way anybody dislikes this guy,he is not your typical guy,I guess thats why I consider him as a friend,but I dont go out with him or anything like that,but he is the only one who texts me,I talk on the phone even if its only a few times.
ilmatross
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SJG74006
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Before I started work, I had no friends. I lost touch with my only school friend when I started college and I found it very difficult to make friends here that I left two years later knowing nobody.
I DO have a couple of acquantancies, but all met through work, and I only email them a couple of times a year and they are all much older than me. I have only my old school friend my own age and I only contact him now and again. Otherwise, nobody ever calls me/emails me.
I DO have a couple of acquantancies, but all met through work, and I only email them a couple of times a year and they are all much older than me. I have only my old school friend my own age and I only contact him now and again. Otherwise, nobody ever calls me/emails me.
Beyond Timid
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I've always had at least one friend every year. My parents egged me to talk to people, and I will talk to someone who initiates conversation with me.
Shant
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Right now I basically only have one good friend.
Somehow I still find a way to turn this against myself and hate that I only have one friend - as if I'm so lame, since he has a lot more friends than I do and often I feel like I'm burdening him by my lame presence.
But then again, I only see him about 4 times a year at most anyways. We don't talk much anymore because our college choices were far away. I have another "good friend", but the last time we've really met? A few years, possibly, besides a few awkward texts.
Somehow I still find a way to turn this against myself and hate that I only have one friend - as if I'm so lame, since he has a lot more friends than I do and often I feel like I'm burdening him by my lame presence.
But then again, I only see him about 4 times a year at most anyways. We don't talk much anymore because our college choices were far away. I have another "good friend", but the last time we've really met? A few years, possibly, besides a few awkward texts.
popolala
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erm.. i have some friends, but they not close friends.. sometime i feel i dont have friends, because if we not close friends.. then it feels like we aint really friends because i dont tell them everything about me, it just feels like they just someone i know.
my sa didnt used to be bad before, and each friend i would make it my aim to get to know them really well, even if we not close.. and then taht way i feel they my friend.
but now its different.. i think i have a few, online some..
i have a work colleague who i talk to alot online, but barely in person.. not even hello or bye. so hes like an online friend.
my sa didnt used to be bad before, and each friend i would make it my aim to get to know them really well, even if we not close.. and then taht way i feel they my friend.
but now its different.. i think i have a few, online some..
i have a work colleague who i talk to alot online, but barely in person.. not even hello or bye. so hes like an online friend.
v_coccotti
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I literally have no friends 
Vampayah88
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I only have one single friend, he's my best friend.There are some ppl in college i get along with and stuff but i wouldnt consider them friends, i dont confide in them and we dont go out. Im pretty miserable as it is that i dont have more friends, cant imagine what my life would be without my best friend.
Simmy
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I have many online friends. I can be myself when I'm online.. But in real life... I have some people around me.. But I can't cry with them, they don't know the real me. Can I call them "friends"? :
I'm the same =/ I can be so normal and genuine online, I'm free from my self-loathing umbrella I carry with me when I am around others physically..
I dont have many I would consider friends in real life though. The friends I made at the beginning of the university year have sort of drifted away from hangin out havin a good time, to saying hey and how's it going..and it ends there.
Just 3 guys I consider my friends, I've known from high school. I know if I call them and ask them to hang out they would...but I hardly every initiate it. Maybe a few times in a year we meet but that's it.
My life is so empty