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    Merry Christmas

    Merry Christmas to everyone, I tried to post this on the off topic stream but it just doesn't show up on the main page. Wishing you all a great day and the best for the coming year.
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    Merry Chistmas

    Merry Chistmas, To one and to all! All the best and may the coming year bring you all greater happiness.
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    Harry Potter Fans

    Pottermania has swept this part of the world again with the launch of the latest book. Working in a library system I guess that I am a little more exposed to this sort of thing than others. It amazes me just how excited some people have been over this. I have not read any of the books - not my...
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    Hey Webmaster. Is it time?

    As I write this there are 4 members and 84 guests. Perhaps it is time to allow guests to have their say again. What do you think?
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    Your best day.

    Courtesy of alcohol I had an amazing experience. I was staying on a semi-tropical island (Great Keppel Island) and I approached the swimming pool late one night when some women started chatting my name "Brian, Brian, Brian". It was just amazing. Because of the alcohol factor I somehow managed to...
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    Off Topic: The toilet seat.

    I have trouble understanding how some women get upset over males leaving the toilet seat up. I mean hey, it only takes a fraction of a second and virtually no effort to put it back down again so what is the big deal? I suspect that there may be a power play involved. This is not something...
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    Self esteem and true love.

    I have always thought that for true love to exist between two people there must be a complete reciprocal bond of love. What I mean is that love must be equally given and accepted. The question I ask is whether it is possible to have this kind of love if a person has issues in regards to...
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    Caffeine - Friend or Foe?

    I used to read a lot of Psychiatrist's reports as a part of my job and in almost all of them the Doctor would report on the individual's caffeine intake. This would make one wonder just how much the stuff affects us. Personally, I would struggle to get by without my morning coffee and lunchtime...
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    Assertiveness - are you assertive?

    Definition assertive adjective describes someone who behaves confidently and is not frightened to say what they want or believe: I have a bit of a problem in saying no to friends when they ask me - for instance - to go somewhere when I don't really want to, or to do something when my...
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    Jury duty.

    When I got home today I checked my mailbox in eager anticipation of the many valentines cards I was hoping for (tongue firmly in cheek). Hmmmm, no cards. What I did get was a letter from the Sheriff (I thought that they were only in westerns) advising me that I have been selected for jury duty...
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    Regrets

    The thing which really gets to me more than anything else with SA is the nagging thoughts about not living the life that I would like to have lived. The fear of not having a past that I can reflect on with satisfaction like remembering my school dance (I didn't go), the missed opportunities...
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    Best Books for Self-help

    Hello Folks, I have found two books to be of real help to me in regards to rationalising my thought processes more effectively to deal with S P and stress in my life in general. I can't recall the name of one which I loaned to a friend whom I haven't seen for quite a while...
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    Photo phobia

    Before I developed S P I had no problems with having my photograph taken, in fact I quite liked it. Since I developed S P I have a fear/dread of having my photo taken and I don't seem to be able to smile. The photos usually end up with me looking terrified or pulling a funny face. Does anyone...
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