Scottish_Player said:
Every year i say tell myself that i will go away for atleast a couple of days but i then realize i have no one to do these things with and i coudnt handle it on my own .If i had someone to go with me i could do it no problem. :roll:
yeah, each year, i keep telling myself that i'll go away abroad for a week, but when the time comes to actually organise it, i start thinking about how bad it will be to do it all by myself, so i lose all motivation and chicken out....then i tell myself, ok, next year i'll go...of course, i never do
it is so frustrating because i also know that if i had someone to go with, it would be 100% different, so much easier and something to genuinely look forward to
i do go by myself on day trips to various places but always feel self-conscious when everyone else is in groups, so usually go find some remote walk where i can avoid meeting too many people
i find it very hard to get motivated to do things by myself, and as a result, have less imagination about things to do when i get there...just having someone to go with tranforms things and suddenly am filled with confidence and want to try this and try that, go have lunch in this restaurant, go visit such and such......but on my own, i'm just feeling anxious, avoid restaurants and other attractions, always take a packed- lunch and eat it somewhere private, and wonder why i bothered going in the first place