SamTheSammich
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Well not really convince her, per say,but going off of my last topic (if you will take a quick gander please- http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/i-need-advice-about-working-things-out-with-this-person-58511/ ). I got to see her today for the first time,and we had a great time at the mall,unfortunately we had a large group of people of friends around us so it was kinda awkward,but nevertheless I had a great time.
If you read my last topic,you'll see that I was told it would be best to be friends instead,but I wasn't given a concrete reason. I understand as a BELIEF we couldn't work out as a couple.. but I don't know it sounds fishy.. Anyways.
I'm looking forward to hanging out with her more,I don't WANT to rush things at all,I want to take things slowly ,but its very hard considering how deeply I've fallen for her. And what makes me fall deeper for her is that we actually compliment each other and flirt back and forth and such,so you'd think with seeing how we talk to each other there should be no barrier right? Well not in this case.. I don't want to back out of this because she really is something else to me,I haven't met anyone around here with so much in common with me,and trust me,down south its VERY hard finding a female in-depth gamer,adventure seeker and intelligent being. I was kind of thinking about writing a note to her and giving it to her down the line.. just saying that I really think we would work out as a couple and that I'm not going to leave her even if she says no to me again,nothing forceful or pressuring,I just want to have something to look forward to "securely" if you catch my drift. See I have SOMETHING to look forward to trying to get into a relationship with her and spending time with her,but the thing is I DON'T KNOW if it'll happen,so if I were to get with her I won't have to worry about that anymore. That's what I mean with securely.
What should I do? I want to wait a while THEN move in and try my luck with a note or something else that isn't anything pressurizing. But I also DON'T want to wait because it's killing me as I genuinely like this person dearly.. and it was truly unexpected as of said from my last post that she would just tell me that she thinks we wouldn't work out as a couple even after all that we shared back and forth with communication.
If you read my last topic,you'll see that I was told it would be best to be friends instead,but I wasn't given a concrete reason. I understand as a BELIEF we couldn't work out as a couple.. but I don't know it sounds fishy.. Anyways.
I'm looking forward to hanging out with her more,I don't WANT to rush things at all,I want to take things slowly ,but its very hard considering how deeply I've fallen for her. And what makes me fall deeper for her is that we actually compliment each other and flirt back and forth and such,so you'd think with seeing how we talk to each other there should be no barrier right? Well not in this case.. I don't want to back out of this because she really is something else to me,I haven't met anyone around here with so much in common with me,and trust me,down south its VERY hard finding a female in-depth gamer,adventure seeker and intelligent being. I was kind of thinking about writing a note to her and giving it to her down the line.. just saying that I really think we would work out as a couple and that I'm not going to leave her even if she says no to me again,nothing forceful or pressuring,I just want to have something to look forward to "securely" if you catch my drift. See I have SOMETHING to look forward to trying to get into a relationship with her and spending time with her,but the thing is I DON'T KNOW if it'll happen,so if I were to get with her I won't have to worry about that anymore. That's what I mean with securely.
What should I do? I want to wait a while THEN move in and try my luck with a note or something else that isn't anything pressurizing. But I also DON'T want to wait because it's killing me as I genuinely like this person dearly.. and it was truly unexpected as of said from my last post that she would just tell me that she thinks we wouldn't work out as a couple even after all that we shared back and forth with communication.