Jordan
Active member
Hello!
First and foremost, a disclaimer. You don't have to spend your time reading a long, boring and confusing post like this. But in the unlikely event that you decide to go ahead, please note that:
1) you've been warned, and
2) it is meant for a serious discussion.
Disregarding the above, you'll only waste your time and that of several misfortunate readers. Possibly, even mine (but don't count of this).
Clear enough? Now, here it goes.
Some time ago I came across to a site about SP/SA, where the author of the page was slightly annoyed for having got repeatedly questions about Asperger Syndrome. He claimed that it's a completely different animal, and wondered why those emails arrived. Perhaps, they didn't, in which case it was matter of a third syndrome, namely WHD (Webmaster's Hallucinatory Disorder).
I regret that I didn't keep record of the URL, but please take my word for it. If the subject matches the interest of this forum, I could seek some sites, if not that one.
Anyway, the question should probably be put in another form. The descriptions of SA and AS don't overlap that much, no doubt. But they might be related in another way. Namely, AS belongs to the autistic spectrum. As such, it's a neurological, inborn disorder. If you've got it, you've got it. Your brain acts differently from the norm, and social issues will always be a problem. If you're lucky, you might become very performant (and often, very creative) in other activities.
Let me try with an example on how two different people might miss a chance. Many of you will have experienced a situation where they can judge the aftermath like this: "What a pity, I fully understood what was going on and what I should have done, yet I was too shy and didn't act out as I wanted!" It occurred to me to didn't act not because of fear or something, but just because I didn't understand what was going on. Yet, remembering all details later, I realized that was all obvious. Matter of body language, non-verbal signs and so on. But anxiety wasn't to blame, as I was utterly unable to grasp the situation.
Ditto, for unwritten rules. Normal people seem to get them, unaware that this happens, but it works. To me, it takes time and the result is poor. Experience helped in part, but it's a costant flaw with which I must live for good.
Now, if you're born with AS, what are your odds to develop SA, which only takes a letters swap? I daresay that a person with AS will have abnormally high anxiety in many social situations, and all the symptoms of SA could appear. Besides, I expect that this happens at a very early age.
I wonder if any of you readers has got diagnosed AS (or other, such as HF autism), and if you can relate with the above. Personally, along the years I was blessed by a rich set of epiteths about my being crazy and/or retard, plus a number of smart evaluations about my looks, my sexuality, my ethics, my overall lack of worth, not to mention the most insightful remarks about my need to pretend to belong to human race.
What is surprisingly missing in this picture is the official diagnosis of any mental disorder that I might have. In a way, I feel ripped off.
But my guess is that my own symptoms overlap with several traits of both AS and SA, so I might well have both.
Thank you for your time (and I mean it)!
Cheers,
Jordan
First and foremost, a disclaimer. You don't have to spend your time reading a long, boring and confusing post like this. But in the unlikely event that you decide to go ahead, please note that:
1) you've been warned, and
2) it is meant for a serious discussion.
Disregarding the above, you'll only waste your time and that of several misfortunate readers. Possibly, even mine (but don't count of this).
Clear enough? Now, here it goes.
Some time ago I came across to a site about SP/SA, where the author of the page was slightly annoyed for having got repeatedly questions about Asperger Syndrome. He claimed that it's a completely different animal, and wondered why those emails arrived. Perhaps, they didn't, in which case it was matter of a third syndrome, namely WHD (Webmaster's Hallucinatory Disorder).
I regret that I didn't keep record of the URL, but please take my word for it. If the subject matches the interest of this forum, I could seek some sites, if not that one.
Anyway, the question should probably be put in another form. The descriptions of SA and AS don't overlap that much, no doubt. But they might be related in another way. Namely, AS belongs to the autistic spectrum. As such, it's a neurological, inborn disorder. If you've got it, you've got it. Your brain acts differently from the norm, and social issues will always be a problem. If you're lucky, you might become very performant (and often, very creative) in other activities.
Let me try with an example on how two different people might miss a chance. Many of you will have experienced a situation where they can judge the aftermath like this: "What a pity, I fully understood what was going on and what I should have done, yet I was too shy and didn't act out as I wanted!" It occurred to me to didn't act not because of fear or something, but just because I didn't understand what was going on. Yet, remembering all details later, I realized that was all obvious. Matter of body language, non-verbal signs and so on. But anxiety wasn't to blame, as I was utterly unable to grasp the situation.
Ditto, for unwritten rules. Normal people seem to get them, unaware that this happens, but it works. To me, it takes time and the result is poor. Experience helped in part, but it's a costant flaw with which I must live for good.
Now, if you're born with AS, what are your odds to develop SA, which only takes a letters swap? I daresay that a person with AS will have abnormally high anxiety in many social situations, and all the symptoms of SA could appear. Besides, I expect that this happens at a very early age.
I wonder if any of you readers has got diagnosed AS (or other, such as HF autism), and if you can relate with the above. Personally, along the years I was blessed by a rich set of epiteths about my being crazy and/or retard, plus a number of smart evaluations about my looks, my sexuality, my ethics, my overall lack of worth, not to mention the most insightful remarks about my need to pretend to belong to human race.
What is surprisingly missing in this picture is the official diagnosis of any mental disorder that I might have. In a way, I feel ripped off.
But my guess is that my own symptoms overlap with several traits of both AS and SA, so I might well have both.
Thank you for your time (and I mean it)!
Cheers,
Jordan