ana0989
Active member
Hi everyone, I just wanted to write about something that occurs to me very often.
Most of the time I find myself worrying about lots of things, I feel overwhelmed thinking about horrible events that might occur in a near future. For example, I use to worry a great deal about my health everytime I feel something strange in my body, like a pain I've never felt before or that is rare to me, and I start to freak out thinking that I could have a serious disease. I'm so afraid of suffering and pain that I can't even think about it. I think about death too and I can't bear it. This also happens regarding my parents, I don't want them to get sick, I don't want them to die. It's so horrible for me to note that anyone of them is not healthy enough. For example, my mum smokes quite much and I suffer a lot because I don't want her to get sick and the worst of all is that it is so difficult for me to tell her no to do it. I try to find ways to help her, but it's so hard because talking is not easy for me. The same happens with my dad at another aspects, he doesn't smoke but sometimes gets sick or he's not so well, and I suffer for that reason too. I'm so afraid of losing my parents, they represent my whole support in life, I don't know what I'll do without them. I can't actually imagine a life after them, I really can't. I feel that when they're gone, I'm gone too. I can't imagine living on my own and being ok. That's the truth. I wish it was different, but it's not. I hope this feeling change someday.
Sorry, I just wanted to unburden myself, that's all. However, I strongly believe in God and He's the one I hold on to. But I needed to express what it is in my heart.
Most of the time I find myself worrying about lots of things, I feel overwhelmed thinking about horrible events that might occur in a near future. For example, I use to worry a great deal about my health everytime I feel something strange in my body, like a pain I've never felt before or that is rare to me, and I start to freak out thinking that I could have a serious disease. I'm so afraid of suffering and pain that I can't even think about it. I think about death too and I can't bear it. This also happens regarding my parents, I don't want them to get sick, I don't want them to die. It's so horrible for me to note that anyone of them is not healthy enough. For example, my mum smokes quite much and I suffer a lot because I don't want her to get sick and the worst of all is that it is so difficult for me to tell her no to do it. I try to find ways to help her, but it's so hard because talking is not easy for me. The same happens with my dad at another aspects, he doesn't smoke but sometimes gets sick or he's not so well, and I suffer for that reason too. I'm so afraid of losing my parents, they represent my whole support in life, I don't know what I'll do without them. I can't actually imagine a life after them, I really can't. I feel that when they're gone, I'm gone too. I can't imagine living on my own and being ok. That's the truth. I wish it was different, but it's not. I hope this feeling change someday.
Sorry, I just wanted to unburden myself, that's all. However, I strongly believe in God and He's the one I hold on to. But I needed to express what it is in my heart.