lifesnotfair
Well-known member
basically not going to get a g/f. somehow i know i am going to die a virgin...
thoughtless said:Talk about self-esteem :?
Social Phobia doesn't last forever. It's a psychological thing. If you keep thinking the way you think right now then I'm sorry but you won't get over it.
Just start doing stuff that would be positive for you. Small steps that grow bigger with time! Start working out, eating healthy food, sleeping properly, going out in the day for a small walk after breakfast or lunch, go to the store buying some milk/bread/whatever. All those "small" things. Eventually, by getting out of your house, you'll end up meeting someone, who knows? These things are very unpredictable.
Truth is, if you keep thinking you're a loser and your life sucks, you won't move on.
In case your SP is "too" serious, go see a counselor... Get some help, get some support from your family and stuff. Don't try dealing with social phobia all by yourself!
lifesnotfair said:basically not going to get a g/f. somehow i know i am going to die a virgin...
thoughtless said:get some support from your family and stuff. Don't try dealing with social phobia all by yourself!
Not everyone has a supportive family and 'stuff'.
thoughtless said:Talk about self-esteem :?
Social Phobia doesn't last forever. It's a psychological thing. If you keep thinking the way you think right now then I'm sorry but you won't get over it.
Just start doing stuff that would be positive for you. Small steps that grow bigger with time! Start working out, eating healthy food, sleeping properly, going out in the day for a small walk after breakfast or lunch, go to the store buying some milk/bread/whatever. All those "small" things. Eventually, by getting out of your house, you'll end up meeting someone, who knows? These things are very unpredictable.
Truth is, if you keep thinking you're a loser and your life sucks, you won't move on.
In case your SP is "too" serious, go see a counselor... Get some help, get some support from your family and stuff. Don't try dealing with social phobia all by yourself!
ColdFury said:Its not the sex, its having someone who cares about you.