Excuse me? Just because you don't understand the point of what I write, doesn't make me a troll. Of course its nerve racking to talk to the opposite sex, it is for everyone, men or women. The best way to go at it is to talk to them like you would anyone else, you know, try to connect with them on a human level? It is insulting when a man trys to emotionally manipulate you with tricks and lines. Any quality girl will see through that ****.
Also, you clearly do not know what feminism is. It is not about the obliteration of gender identity.
its goal is to stamp out gender roles...or at least the role of men in society and the household. its goal is not equality. it has ruined everything.
youre saying that common interest is all that matters. to be honest, i cant find any common interest with women today because 90% of them are too stuck up to talk to me to begin with, when im the one who makes the effort. they want someone with a certain higher social status...that is, with popularity, money, nice clothes, nice car, attractive, alpha male persona, etc...basically prince charming. the dating sites are a prime example of how selective and judgmental they can be.
most of them have synthetic personalities, no individuality, and act like robots. they dont know what they want. i cannot find much common interest with that. granted there are exceptions out there, they are hard to find. ive been trying to find those exceptions for years. its like a needle in a haystack.
of course you will respond by saying that there is something wrong with me, and nothing wrong with them...thats what i usually get.
ive been trying to "connect" with them for years, it hasnt worked. thats why millions of guys who struggle have to learn how to talk to them, what to say, dont say this say that, jump through all these hoops, etc. you cannot make a "connection" without giving off some type of swagger. and for some it works.
i welcome the day when i am liked and accepted because of my interests.
why else are guys who fail in dating always met with, "you are too nice", "youre not masculine enough", "you should dress better", etc. like it or not theres a certain role men have to play here to get respect. its not just about interests.