DeadCities
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So today I saw probably the most beautiful girl in my life and that empty feeling enveloped me again and I was reminded of this thread I made last year...
I'm not saying this out of bitterness, but most of the really pretty girls I've seen are insipid, vacuos people with no trace of personality, as if being gorgeous is all they need to do. (and it probably is) So don't worry to much. As selfish as this may sound I'd rather have a gf that looks worse than me so I'm not as self conscious around her.
And yes I know, this makes it even harder. Life is unfair in this way. If this was naturally made to be a need in life then why can't it be easier to get? Maybe just because of the society we live in.
Indeed, there's a pressure in our society for everyone to be a good looking, social, and constantly happy/funny/entertaining person. At least in my age group (I'm 18). Alot of times people have to fake these things, because as we all know, it's impossible to be all those all the time. So we create a phoney structure where people that can't live up to the "ideal" that is placed in our heads are considered undesirable.
I still talk to the girl I love everyday, she knows my feelings and is not the least bit interested. She has a boyfriend in another country (this isn't a lie, I've talked to him). I've had gf's before, but she's the first girl I've every really had these feelings for, and I can't even discuss them with her because it'd make her uncomfortable and she'd stop talking to me. So I act like the pathetic human being I am, unable to move on, and still try to get along with her, with the vain hope she'll somehow forget her bf and fall in love me. SIGH! Sorrry id I'm being depressing, but I'm not in a great mood as of right now.
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