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  1. Kanon

    love or imagination?

    I'm curious to know... since most of us here haven't had "real" love lives, what do you fantasize about when thinking about the person you like, or just when thinking about love altogether? Also, if you've been in a relationship, was it better than your fantasy world?
  2. Kanon

    how do you feel about "getting help"?

    last week, i set up an appointment to meet with my medical doctor and ask him a few questions. a few weeks ago, i dropped out of the college i was attending because the school is mainly about networking, and well... it got to a point where i felt like i was wasting $30,000 a year in student...
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    Questions about suicide?

    A lot of people that say, "suicide is not the answer" or whatever, are usually happy or hanging on to something that makes them happy. They will say, "your family and friends will miss you, and whatever" but what about a person that doesn't have that? How do you convince that person not to...
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    the FRIEND takes the cake?

    Does anyone have a friend or a close person in their life that everyone you work so hard to meet ends up liking this person better after you introduce them, or after they somehow meet? It's not like my friend does it on purpose at all, and i don't think he is even aware of it, but everyone from...
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    "It's EVERYWHERE!"

    In the past few weeks, I moved away from my hometown and now go to school focused on the major I want to learn. At first, I thought these great risks would help me become more outgoing and force me to get out more, but it is having a reverse effect. I've tried researching for groups, therapy...
  6. Kanon

    When is the right time?

    Recently, I was introduced to a girl through a friend, and after a few weeks of hanging out with her, she offered to have sex with me. We have a lot of the same interests, and I do like her, but we never mentioned dating eachother at all. Plus, I am still a virgin and she is a several years...
  7. Kanon

    Dealing with rejection?

    Most of us here, if not all of us deal with this feeling on a daily basis, whether it is from another person, or our subconscious doing it. How does everyone deal with this? Are there any effective ways to manage the feeling of being rejected?
  8. Kanon

    Shy Around Children?

    Does anyone else have this problem? I am always afraid that a child will point out one of my insecurities to the known public. One time, a mother (whom I thought was attractive, which already made me very shy) came into my job with her son, and after I had started to build a comfort zone and...
  9. Kanon

    Video Chat?

    I think this might be a good idea. Everyday, I keep reading things, and hearing things about how to interact with complete strangers effectively, but even though I have tried, I am still not very good at it. Since everyone here is experiencing the same problems/issues and we are all here for...
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    Hiding?

    Does anyone have something that they hide behind, or some place that they can sort of hide in that makes them feel comfortable? I have been doing photography for a couple of years, and I have noticed that whenever I have to go into public, I sort of hide behind my camera so people will think I...
  11. Kanon

    Hi.. I am new, and need help...

    Hi. I am in a situation where I can possibly start curing my shyness, but I admit I am very afraid to do it. One of my co-workers (female) has been trying to get me to hang out with her and her friends (who are all female) for awhile, and each time, I will tell myself, "I am going to do this!"...
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